“A Head Full Of Fears Has No Space For Dreams”

When we run away from our fears,they control us. Allowing ourselves to feel the fear is an act of courage,and facing our fear is an opportunity for our growth. People are dying from overthinking, they fill their brains with harsh thoughts and it brings the body down too. We suffer more often in imagination than in reality. Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate, our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measures. It is our darkness,not our light,that most frightens us. Our playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around us.

“Train the brain to kill the fear frame”

We are all meant to shine as children do. It is not just some of us; It is in everyone. And as we let our own light shine,we unconciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear. Our presence automatically liberates, it  is a product of our thinking. We generate fears while we sit. We overcome them by actions.

There are many fears that can leave us feeling stuck and unable to make that first step. Fear of finances,fear of failure. Whatever is holding us back today,can we remind ourselves that if god placed that dream inside us,he will be faithful to bring it to action. Our job is to simply say yes and make the leap of faith.

If you can’t beat fear,make it scared.

When fear within us is in  its icy grip, we quickly turn towards self peservation. We hope to avoid loss,escape pain,or cheat death. All of us, at one point of  time or other has been overcomed ourselves with fear. Do you  ever noticed a baby who just learns to stand up but  fears to walk,  but never gives up on walking. It’s  not just a fear but love towards exploring new side of life, a love to dynamism in life. A mother always fears when her tinny Todd  goes to school for the first time. Still she overcomes from  all her fears. And  a  father  will always fear what if he doesn’t succeed in making his business an empire?  What if he fails to carry this responsibilities well? This love for his family that gives him strength. A bf/gf or we can  say  a general friend  will always fear to loose his/her favourite person.  Love and fear  always  run like “Two wheels of the cart which cannot meet but if one is not there the other one become useless. If we  probably don’t fear we  have no love towards our  motto or goal we  want to let us  go.

What’s on other side of the fear ?  


We have to believe that something different can happen. The first step before anybody else in the world is to believe  in it. Make a choice ,you  just have to  decide what you gonna be,who you’re gonna be,how you’re gonna do. “Just Decide”. And from that point,the universe is gonna  get out of our way. I believe that  what we are, who we are   and what we choose to be is the key. The road to success is through commitment when it gets hard. It is gonna be too hard and we  want to quit sometimes. When we wake up in the morning and our lives mean something to somebody other than us that have a purpose,if we don’t go down the things that we  gonna  do,People’s lives will suffer. To live in self perfection, not to make someone else perfect.To our church,to our city,to our country,to the world. That is the purest form of joy. 

“Kill it to win it”



By facing our fears we  first handle the situation isn’t as scary as we perceived it to be. Our minds play tricks on us,and will amplify whatever  is of  we are frightened . So make a plan to face our fears,and know this that we are not alone. We should have to  promise ourselves  that there’s someone struggling just like as we  are. Fear doesn’t stop us! Because we don’t want to deal with  our fear we let it control ourselves. Which impromise our success journey.


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  1. Vijay

    Hello Mam I have go through your article it was wonderful. Mam I have a problem of ” WHAT IF” types of thought in my mind. Mam can you please tell me how to overcome extra thoughts that comes in our mind.

  2. Sam

    Realy nice ? “kill it to win it”… wow this is the line which inspire me the most… and i am fearless now… thank you mam for this motivation and keep writing.