Initially Female was being treated as a fragile gender. But now the situation had totally changed into a revolutionary one because of the upgradation in the society. I personally want people to understand that something which is in the sense of arguing for fundamental female rights is called “Feminism”.
But different people consider this aspect with different perspective. For a male,a female being equally powered or overpowered than him seems a little bit bizarre in existence whereas for a female, it really seems like reaching a milestone as she has to face all struggles and undergo such shortcomings in their life,yet their hardworking is rewarded with the Title “A Feminist “ in a tone which denotes that she is aggressive. But A Female Feminist should be admired for being such a fighter but not to be treated as a stubborn living being.
How a feminist should be actually called as?
Considering the dialogue uttered by Mr.Brijesh Gulati,a character from Chetam Bhagat’s “ONE INDIAN GIRL”, “I think all human beings should have equal rights. Its not men versus women. But its human versus human. Feminist is a wrong term,It should be Humanist; we are very well able to state that what rights men have should be equally available to women too”.
What real Feminism is?
Comparative to the ancient days,the male chauvinistic prevailation had gradually reduced along with the raise of women empowerment. The definition of feminism today is totally changed .“Men can have that but why not we?” is the argument placed by the feminists if I’m not wrong. But my dear feminists be very sure in the point of your argument. Probably there is nothing wrong in arguing that “Men and women are equal “ but never forget the same.Some feminists, not everyone, but the “so called feminists “ thinking that they should be equal to men,they tend to degrade men sometimes.
Blocking a guy on social media immediately when he starts a friendly conversation is not feminism. Smoking, boozing and burning don’t make you equal to men. Rather you should try competing men in the field of career and try to be equal to them in that sense if I’m not wrong.“Treating a girl fairly “is what a feminist wants,then you should give the same output by treating men in a friendly manner.That’s the justice. “Human- its not either the mankind or womankind but the Humankind! “
Be Bold and Beautiful
The first thing to be done as a female is that never bother about your future. Its true that Asian Women especially Indian Women, do cross their teenage with lot of risks, especially the fear of getting married before they achieve something in their career. Many girls lose their passion and dreams as they are being subjected to marriage life. But remember one thing girls, no one can understand us better than our parents.
So open up your mind to them and prove yourself and make them proud so that they let you to taste more success. Be bold enough to face any situation and never get dejected feeling inferior. Be a conqueror because you are born to do it. Once you start being bold, you become more confident and intellectually beautiful.
Explore the world
Don’t stay under the same roof. Be very observant to know what is going around you. Try learning new things outside the kitchen. Kitchen is not females’ world there is something called “World” outside the kitchen. Realize that. Explore that. Inspire other women. Make others learn from you. Never stop yourself from getting empowered. World is cunning to put you down without letting you grow. But remember the same world is only going to praise you once you are grown and reached heights in success. Don’t be bossy but shower your kindness to others. After all love needs no investment but its productive, be generous in spending your love on others. Emerge as an amazing female. Let you be the Fantastic Energetic Mighty Inspiring Noble Idealistic Sportive Tremendous FEMINIST.