my tight clothes and jeans has now became the CAUSES OF RAPE .
India a land of various cultures and traditions but if I am a girl with MODERN THINKINGS and WESTERN CULTURE , it would mean that I am not from a “IZZATDAR GHAR” .
If I post my pictures on any social networking sites in small clothes then it is the reason of increasing RAPE THREATS on my social media . Now I have to choose my clothes according to my neighborhood aunties ! so they didn’t get any chance to ALLUDE my dressing sense .
let me BE MYSELF now , let me ask those people and aunties who have these thinking about me “WHO ARE YOU TO JUDGE ME ? , WHO ARE YOU TO DECIDE WHAT’S WRONG AND WHAT’S RIGHT FOR ME ? , WHO ARE YOU TO DECIDE WHAT TO WEAR OR WHAT NOT ? ” , if the aunties are worried that my small clothes are for IMMERSION of their sons then they should be the one to teach their sons how to respect a girl inspect of her color , size , shape and especially clothes .
These assaults doesn’t finish only on a common girl like me but it also ENTANGLE those great women’s of bollywood who inspire us with their hard work . One example is of Dangal star FATIMA SANA SAIKH who post a picture of her on social media FLAUNTING her legs in bikini . So what if she worked extremely hard for her movie which did exceptionally well ! No one talks about her work but only her legs. That is because she is a BESHARAM LADKI , daring to wear a bikini, that too on a beach.
It is only one example from many , if I start then there will be an never ending cases of sexual harassments and assaults against girls at every pace of india . But for me , It is not my small clothes which are making the society GRIMMY , it is the small thinking of people who is making the society DREADFUL for me .
This one is for all the people and those aunties of this country – if my small clothes give me confidence to be an INDEPENDENT GIRL I will wear them , if my small clothes give me HAPPINESS I will wear them . It is me who chooses to wear them not anyone BETWIXT you .