I see guys spending weeks and months trying to impress girls. Girls waiting endlessly for their guys to call. Is this life all about? relationship? breakup? A lover to validate you? what do you think?

I think one need to focus on one’s life-goals, make one’s life better than the previous day.

So when people ask you “what should you do with your life? “ or “what your life‘s purpose is?”, what they are actually inquiring is what important things you can do with your time?

Have a dream in life, have a passion to know that there is no such thing as an overnight success. Success comes with enormous hard work, commitment, perseverance and sacrifice.

The purpose of life is to live it, to taste it, to experience it to the utmost, to reach out eagerly and without fear to newer and richer experiences. Life is to be useful to somebody, to be honorable, to be compassionate to other creatures, to our environment.

The human race is becoming a monotonous affair. Most people spend the greatest part of their life only to find a soul mate!

In our race running for a boy or a girl, we eventually forget our life goals and loose both in the bargain.

No matter what pain you have been through tears will dry, broken hearts will heal. Somewhere a person who truly deserves you is waiting for you and if you still spend too long holding on to the one who treats you like an option, you might miss finding the one who would treat you as a priority

Next time that guy or girl treats you badly say thank you for reminding me that first I need to be successful and my priorities and my goals need my attention before anyone or anything else.




I want to ask you a question. Are you living a life you want ?

Most people say no. It’s impossible, it’s too hard, and not feasible for me. There are no opportunities.

Have you actually tried achieving the life you want to live?

While you are chasing girls someone is chasing his dreams so better not regret after 5 years to see them successful.

You are messaging 10 different girls on WHATSAPP, FACEBOOK every single day. You are investing all your time, day and night to chat with a girl of your liking. Now just imagine for a second if you saved all that time and put all that effort and will, to work for yourself and not for a hot girl, not on your imaginary love of your life, not on any girl.  Stop looking for a partner, focus on your goals. Focus on gaining knowledge. Focus on growing as a person. Only then will the right person find you.


If you don’t believe me, then go to any matrimonial site and see the salary expectation of  prettiest girls. They all are looking for a six figure income man. They are looking for a guy who has an expensive car, watch, power and status. Make a relationship with your dreams, then you will find true love. Don’t waste your time on the relationships that only depends on how much money you can spend.






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